Let me start by asking you: Is it your pup’s fault if you had a bad day? If you argued with someone? Or if you woke up on the wrong side of the bed?
The simple answer: NO!
Your pup isn't to blame if your day isn’t going well. So please, don’t take it out on them—don’t hit or mistreat them just because they ate something off the floor or didn’t do exactly what you wanted, when you wanted.
I know having a puppy can be challenging, and we sometimes expect them to come already trained. But think about it—did we, as humans, come into this world with manners? They’re just little souls in puppy bodies, waiting for us to show them what to do and how to do it.
Teach them with love and in a fun way, because I believe we all learn better when love and joy are part of the lesson.
Your pup isn’t just a cute face to show off around the neighborhood or a fluffy decoration in your home. They are living, breathing beings who depend on you. They need exercise, understanding, patience, and most importantly, your love and attention. You’re their whole world, their everything.
I’ll never forget a picture I once saw of a pup with the caption: “You have friends, family, events. I only have you.” That really touched my heart.
When I first got Max, I didn’t know what I was getting into. I made mistakes, plenty of them, and I’m not proud of that. But over time, I became more aware and began to understand him better.
I learned about his rhythms—when he sleeps, plays, eats, and rests. And as they grow, they sleep less and have more energy. They go through changes, just like we do during adolescence, and during that time, they need even more patience from us. It’s not easy for them either.
This is often the stage when many people give up and abandon their pups at shelters. Please, don’t give up on them. Every moment, every phase of their lives, is worth it. Your love, patience, and understanding mean the world to them.
After five years with Max, I’ve learned so much. I understand now that the bond we share with our doggies doesn’t always happen right away, but it will come.
Be open to learning from them, because they’re here to teach us too. They don’t want conflict or tension—they want to see you happy and to share their love with you.
So please, don’t let frustration or impatience dim their light. They are pure joy, and they will remind you of how beautiful life can be if you let them.
Instead of dimming their vibrant colors with too many scoldings, let your pup fill your life with their bright, multicolored joy.
They’re here to help you find happiness, even on the toughest days.
With so much love ❤️ , Max and Mafer.